TODAY’S QUESTION:
Hey Darrin,
I was expecting my boyfriend to propose during the holidays. Now, that’s not going to happen… he says he is not sure if he is in love with me, and claims the only way to be sure is to break up for a while.
His explanation is if he feels he can’t live without me, then he knows our relationship is right and we should get married. He wants me to wait until he figures out his feelings.
All of my friends are warning me against this, saying it seems suspicious, but some family members who like him say I should be patient and give him the space he wants. What would you do if you were me? Wait or not?
very selfish on her part
NO, you were not wrong, any one of those people in line would of done the same thing. They are supposed to honor the marked price.
If you’re not his top priority right now, you never will be. Find someone who will put nothing above you. The relationship should be second to none; unless you like being his second choice.
It doesn’t matter what you do. You’ll be dead and no one will miss you when you’re gone after they find out what’s been going on. You clearly don’t care about anyone but yourself. Forget about the will and come clean with your family and mistress.
First of all, mothers who put their children to sleep are using drugs. You probably tucked them in to BED. You make sure that you explain that the person who takes the lives of others has anger issues, is mentally ill, or was misunderstood and misguided. Then, you need to tell them not to be a hero, and if it is possible to get out the building, run to a designated home or place where they will be safe until you can get to them. If they are locked into a building, they need to protect themselves, and your school needs to be having drills and education in how to do that. Our educators just spent last week, Monday afternoon, doing just that. They may not yet be allowed to pack their concealed carry, but there are other ways that 30 people can overtake one with a weapon. Also, remember to give your children hugs. I have not regrets in my parenting, but I lost my middle of three sons six and a half years ago to a set of circumstances that leave me writing to legislators. Six and a half years ago, my forever 16-year-old son was killed by an older wiser 18-year-old driver. All buckled up, with a false sense of security, doing what THE LAW says is best, except the 18-year-old suffered from divorced parents, had just returned from visiting her mother in Florida, and didn’t want to come back home, but Mom made her. She was rebellious, and used our car to kill herself and our son, being reckless, careless, and plain stupid, because she was unhappy with her life. Guns and cars, and all kinds of things kill, but the problem is the person who has chosen to disregard the beauty of life.
Although in bad taste i have to say selling girl scout cookies like anything else is all about location location location.
First, why did you decide to commit to marriage. There has to be reason and does this out way that reason. Then communicate to your significant other. Without communication your relationship is doomed. If she isn’t willing to work on it. There maybe signs of problem. But don’t ask anyone something you are not willing to do yourself.
We take our dogs out to a country dead end road where the traffic is very little. we let them out a few miles then drive down to the end and back and our dogs run along the side not tied up. They are better behaving when they do this because it rids there energy. so i see where she is coming from. But i think attaching the dog to the car and doing it in town is very dangerous for the dog. If she is going to do it find a county road where the traffic is low and you don’t have to tie the dog up.
I think he should ease up. I’ve been on dating sites before so I understand her. Weight shouldn’t be an issue other lies should. Whose to say he didn’t lie about anything.
I agree that your ex should not have introduced someone she has been dating for such a short time to your kids. That can be very confusing for young folks.
Consider this though. Maybe your child invited him to the sporting event and he was just trying to make the child happy.
You should discuss this whole situation with your ex at a later time.